The 2-minute quiz

How you date is how you do business.

Find out which dating pattern is running your business, your money and your love life.

Find my pattern

You're doing everything right. You've read the books, done the mindset work and shown up on social media. You've given and given, to your clients, your family and everyone around you.

And yet

• The money swings between "finally!" and "how am I going to pay for this?"
• You end the day wired and exhausted, and reach for the wine or the scroll just to switch off.
• You keep attracting men (and clients) who take, pull away or never fully show up.
• You're the strong one for everyone, but no one holds you.
• Deep down, you're tired of having to make everything happen on your own.

Your business, your bank account and your love life are all mirrors of the same thing: your relationship with yourself.

The patterns that keep you chasing unavailable men are the same patterns that keep you chasing clients, overgiving and burning out.

Now imagine feeling safe in your own body. You'd be relaxed on a first date because you're not attached to the outcome. Money would come in steadily, and you'd know exactly where it goes. You'd have a business that gives back to your life instead of draining it. And you'd meet a devoted, securely attached man whose love feels like coming home.

That woman isn't someone you have to become by working harder. She's already in you, waiting for a stable foundation to hold her.

This quiz shows you where you are right now, so you know exactly where to begin.

"I went from attracting emotionally unavailable men to marrying my soulmate in less than a year, and from money that came and went to consistent 5 to 10K months. It all started with seeing my pattern."Cari Merriam

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Your pattern

What's the vase? We all carry an inner masculine and an inner feminine. Your inner masculine is the vase: your structure, boundaries and sense of safety. Your inner feminine is the water: your creativity, softness and ability to receive. Your water can only flow when your vase can hold it.